Hi, my name is Maggan. Welcome to Maggan’s kitchen!
I heard that gyms are full these days because of the food indulgence during the recent holidays. Chocolates, ham, roasted pig, wine, champagne, pastries etcetera, etcetera. Well, it’s only 11 months until next Christmas. This means 11 months of creating and maintaining healthy habits to increase your vitality and well-being until the next holiday indulgence.
However, there is something more important than sweating our way to the ideal weight and body mass index. Achieving body-mind health and balance is a greater goal for 2 main reasons.
Working toward a healthy and balanced body and mind initiates healthy habits. According to Dr. Mark Atkinson, habits drive our choices and actions. With healthy habits, we choose the least damaging alternatives and stick to them. This is the first reason.
Another reason that makes body-mind health and balance more compelling than weight loss is that health is not only about the physical body. It is equally about emotional and mental health.
Convinced? Read on. Doubtful? Read on anyway. You may change your mind after reading through this.
As a a concrete example, let me tell you about G. Several years ago, G’s favourite pastime was sweating in the gym to keep fit. It was such a chore but she did it anyway. Even if G was tired from work, she headed straight to the gym after which she got even more tired. G was super tired that she had difficulty sleeping. She successfully maintained her ideal weight but was very stressed and sleeping less. In the end, G had a chronic illness. G was never overweight in the first place.
Dr. Mark recommends physical and emotional detoxification to achieve body-mind health and balance. It only takes 10 days of following the rules below. Moreover, it can be done with someone—a friend, partner, or a family member.
Physical detox
Rule 1: Eliminate sugar, alcohol, and processed foods and this means no cakes, sweets, sodas, biscuits, pastries, chocolates, wine, chicken nuggets, hotdogs, sausages, hams, and the like.
Rule 2: Eliminate caffeine.This includes coffee, Starbucks, latte, decaffeinated drinks, tea from the tea plant, iced tea, chocolates, and the like. If you’re addicted to caffeine and drink coffee in the morning, reduce your intake everyday down to zero. Dr. Mark further recommends drinking at least 2 litres of water a day (or just drink as much as you can and as often as you can), plus herbal teas.
Rule 3: Choose only healthy food choices for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks. Watch out for cereals. They almost always contain sugar. Watch out for food items that promise health but loaded with preservatives and other ingredients that are incomprehensible.
Personally, I recommend a 4-day rotation of the foods that you eat. I learned this from Dr. Liebscher. This simply means eating different foods everyday. On the fourth day, you can eat the same food eaten on the first day.
Rule 4: Alkalise your body. Take alkalising minerals mixed with warm water. Or simply, indulge on fruits and raw vegetables. Drink warm water with juice from a quarter or half of lemon first thing in the morning.
Rule 5: Support your bowels.If you have bowel issues or are unable to release daily, Dr. Mark recommends taking a formula containing Aloe vera, flax, fennel seeds, and the probiotic Lactobacillus sporogenes.
Personally, eating 3 tablespoons of seeds mixed with my sugar-free cereal never fails me. I keep a supply of mixed ground flax, pumpkin, walnut, sesame seeds in a jar in the fridge.
Emotional detox
Rule 6: Free yourself from stressful thoughts. Dr. Mark highly recommends a book by Byron Katie called Loving What Is. He says that this book shows how to turn down the power of a stressful thought. I’m sure other self-help books will also be helpful here. A therapist, if available and affordable to you, is another alternative.
Allow me add to the above. Decrease your speed of living. Don’t try to do everything. We’re not supermen. Even mutants and heroes have limitations. Keep in mind that you don’t have to solve the world’s problems. Accept your limitations and don’t even think or attempt to change what you can’t.
Rule 7: Start training your mind. You must have heard the cliche that everything starts in the mind or about the power of visualization. Think beautiful and positive.
Dr. Mark recommends doing this for 21 days. When you wake up in the morning, write down 3 things that you are grateful for. Like family, health, and work. And why you are grateful for them. Like, they’re nice company, to enjoy life, and because it provides the means to enjoy life.
Allow yourself to feel those feelings. Imagine your preferred ideal life, how it would look like, and how you would feel. Do this for 5 minutes everyday and then let go of the image. I have yet to begin this. Tomorrow. I promise.
Rule 8: Re-organize your time. Look at your schedule and identify how you can create a better balance between work/family/leisure/exercise and relaxation.
Rule 9: Get connected. Get in touch with friends and family. Ring a friend you haven’t spoken to in a long time and meet up with him or her.
Rule 10: Let go of emotional upset. According to Dr. Mark, this is how you get rid of a grudge or emotional upset.
Think of the thing (or person) you are upset about, then notice where you feel it in your body. The throat and chest are common places.
Breathe in and out of those areas, telling them to soften and flow and notice how it starts to shift. Get a sense of where those feelings want to exit and allow them to come out of our body completely. Repeat until there is no upset left.
You will know when you have completely released the upset when you feel light and energised. This works a treat, according to Dr. Mark, and only takes 10 minutes. Needless to say, you should avoid things, situations, and people that can cause you upset.
I’d say that rules 6,7, and 10 would be fun to do just to see if they will work for me. Tomorrow, I promise.